I have started exploring the world of "blogging" a little more lately. I must say, I'm pretty impressed with people's ideas and creativity. I found this *gem* on Becky's blog,
from Mrs. to Momma. So, here it is ~ "Show and Tell Monday." (I am mostly doing this because I love the idea of writing to my future babies!)
How I Met Your Father:
1. Tell us about how and when you met your love and what attracted you most to him.
I know this answer is on the blog somewhere, but since this is a personal post I can make my answer less "facts" and more "lovin." Besides, who doesn't love telling their love story?
I met Brad at our gym. The best part about that is that we were both, clearly dedicated to a healthy lifestyle. I loved that about him instantly. During the summer, I would go to the gym at a different time because I was in Grad school and not teaching. When August rolled around, I started going to the gym at my more normal time after school. My best friend, Beth and I, work out religiously, every day (except for a rest day every now and then). So, I started seeing Brad at the gym in August 2010. Yes, I stared at him every day and yes, I definitely caught him staring at me every day as well. :0)
Brad and I both had a very strict, "do not talk to girls/guys at the gym" policy. So, we just...stared...for 4 MONTHS! Seriously, that is not a joke...we had some hard core staring going on over here. When I look back now, this cracks me up. There were about 2 times I almost talked to him and a few other times I was sure he was going to talk to me. At this point, it was obvious to both of us that we may have occasionally re-arranged our schedules so that we would be at the gym at the same time as the other. By October, Beth and I had named him my "gym boyfriend." Wow...now I sound like a stalker. By November, Beth was daring me to just "get it over with and go talk to him." Sad...right? Hey, before you judge, he was staring too!
Finally, in December 2010 after I got done with cardio, Brad had "just happened" to get done with his cardio at the same time, and we both "happened" to be stretching at the same time, I finally said, "Hey. I see you in here all the time. I'm Kristen." (Brad likes to say I was ducking under my camo hat during those short sentences...which I probably was!) We talked for a few minutes and then left the gym.
That was a Monday. On Tuesday, we "happened" to get done with cardio at the same time and "happened' to be stretching at the same time, so we talked and then walked out to the parking lot where we talked (in the freezing cold) for 2 hours!. The same thing happened Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. On Friday, Brad asked me out on a date for Saturday night!
Brad picked me up Saturday night and took me out on our date. I'm a pretty shy person, so I was a little nervous. That night was the best first date that both of us had ever had! Brad took me to what is now "Our Spot" - Tsunami (sushi) and then later he took me to a wine bar called, Stellar. It was a perfect night...and we've been together since!
2. Show us the very first {or one of the first} pictures you guys ever took together. {Feel free to show us more than one}
Our very first picture...
New Year's Eve...2010! (not our first kiss...but a very memorable one and a perfect way to start the new year!)
3. Tell us some of your favorite memories that you two had together.
Um...how do I even start this? Our favorite memories are US. I think one of our most memorable events was our first road trip from SC to Iowa to visit Brad's family and to go to a friend's wedding. It was not the first time I had met Brad's family, but it was a significant trip! We had a 13 hour drive to Iowa and back, but we had some of the best conversations about our future and us
during that looooong ride.
4. Tell us your favorite qualities about this man, what makes him "the one."
I love Brad because he loves our Jesus. He is a devoted follower of Christ and I have been able to see and be a part of a huge growth in his relationship with God over the past 2 years. Brad is not the man he was 2 years ago. He is devoted, faithful, and trusting of our God. That is my number one reason for loving him.
I also love Brad because...he is thoughtful and generous; he is smart; he loves books and learning; he is continually growing as a person, a man, and a leader; he is the hardest working man I know; he is the 2nd man I was able to respect (my daddy was 1st); he is good with budgeting and his money; he loves working out; he has a healthy lifestyle; he loves ice cream as much as I do; I love his laugh; I feel safe in his bug strong arms; he always holds my hand; he wraps his arms around me every night when he falls asleep; he loves dogs; he loves me unconditionally.
5. Tell us what your "date nights" typically look like.
We have a couple different "levels" of date nights, but a good night for us is getting all "dolled up" (that's mostly me), going out for dinner and a glass of wine, getting ice cream for with our cheat meal on the weekends, and heading home to cuddle up and watch a movie. Simple, but perfect.
I love my husband.